Workplace harassment can affect an employee's ability to feel safe, respected, and able to do their job. It can damage relationships between coworkers, undermine trust in management, and create serious problems for organizations.
Yet many employees aren't sure what actually constitutes workplace harassment.
Is an offensive joke harassment? What if a coworker repeatedly makes inappropriate comments? What if the behavior happens through text messages or Slack? What should an employee do after reporting a concern? And what happens if the employee is worried about retaliation?
These questions matter because workplace harassment isn't always obvious. Some conduct may violate an employer's workplace policies without necessarily meeting the legal definition of unlawful harassment. Other conduct can raise serious legal concerns even when an employee isn't sure how to describe it.
The U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) encourages employees to report harassment early and employers to maintain effective complaint procedures, provide training, and take appropriate action when concerns are raised.
Understanding the difference between inappropriate workplace behavior and unlawful harassment—and knowing what to do when a problem occurs—can help employees respond more effectively.
What Is Workplace Harassment?
Workplace harassment generally involves unwelcome conduct based on a protected characteristic.
Federal employment laws enforced by the EEOC prohibit harassment based on characteristics including race, color, religion, sex, national origin, age, disability, and genetic information. Sex-based protections also cover sexual orientation and gender identity.
Harassment can involve a supervisor, coworker, customer, contractor, or another person connected with the workplace.
It can also happen in different settings.
An employee might experience harassment:
- In an office or workplace facility
- During a business trip
- At a work-related event
- During a video meeting
- Through workplace messaging
- By email
- Through text messages
- Through other work-related digital communications
The fact that an interaction happens outside the physical workplace does not automatically make it unrelated to work.
Not Every Unpleasant Interaction Is Illegal Harassment
This is one of the most important distinctions employees should understand.
A workplace can have inappropriate, disrespectful, or unprofessional behavior that does not necessarily meet the legal standard for unlawful harassment.
The EEOC explains that simple teasing, offhand comments, or isolated incidents that are not extremely serious generally do not violate federal harassment law. However, conduct can become unlawful when it is severe or pervasive enough to create a hostile or abusive environment, or when enduring the conduct becomes a condition of employment.
That doesn't mean employees should ignore inappropriate conduct.
An employer's workplace policy may prohibit behavior more broadly than federal law.
For example, an organization may have policies addressing bullying, disrespectful conduct, inappropriate jokes, workplace civility, or professional behavior even when a particular incident does not independently meet the legal definition of harassment.
The practical lesson for employees is simple:
You don't have to determine whether something is legally harassment before raising a legitimate workplace concern.
The EEOC's employer guidance specifically recommends policies that encourage employees to report conduct they believe may be prohibited harassment—or conduct that could become more serious—even when employees aren't certain whether the conduct violates the policy.
Common Examples of Workplace Harassment
Harassment can take many forms, and context matters.
Potential examples include repeated offensive comments about someone's race, religion, national origin, sex, age, disability, or other protected characteristic.
Other examples may include:
- Slurs or derogatory remarks
- Offensive jokes or stereotypes
- Repeated unwanted sexual comments
- Sexual images or messages
- Unwanted touching
- Threats or intimidation
- Repeated comments about someone's body or appearance
- Offensive workplace displays
- Derogatory comments about someone's religion
- Mocking a disability
- Repeated comments about an employee's age
- Harassing communications through digital platforms
An isolated incident may be inappropriate without meeting the legal standard for unlawful harassment. Conversely, a pattern of conduct can become much more serious.
Employees should therefore consider the broader context rather than focusing on one sentence or one interaction.
Sexual Harassment: What Employees Should Know
Sexual harassment is one of the most recognized forms of workplace harassment.
It can include unwanted sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, sexually oriented comments, inappropriate touching, sexual jokes, or other unwelcome conduct of a sexual nature.
Sexual harassment can also involve employment decisions.
For example, an employee should not be required to tolerate unwanted sexual conduct in exchange for a promotion, favorable assignment, continued employment, or another employment benefit.
The problem can also occur between employees of the same sex or involve conduct directed at someone because of their sex, sexual orientation, or gender identity.
Employees should not assume that behavior is acceptable simply because the person engaging in it describes it as a joke.
Harassment Based on Race, Religion, Age, or Disability
Harassment isn't limited to sexual behavior.
Employees can experience inappropriate conduct connected to race, color, religion, national origin, age, disability, or other protected characteristics.
For example, an employee may face repeated jokes about their accent or national origin. Another employee may be mocked because of a disability. An older worker might repeatedly hear comments suggesting that they are incapable of understanding new technology because of their age.
The issue isn't simply whether someone found a comment offensive.
The circumstances, frequency, severity, context, and connection to a protected characteristic can all matter when determining whether conduct may constitute unlawful harassment.
Workplace Harassment Can Happen Online
Remote and hybrid work have expanded the workplace beyond the office.
Employees now communicate through email, messaging platforms, video meetings, collaborative software, and other digital tools.
That creates additional opportunities for inappropriate conduct.
Examples might include:
- Offensive messages in workplace chats
- Inappropriate images
- Repeated unwanted messages
- Sexual comments during video meetings
- Discriminatory remarks in group discussions
- Offensive material shared through workplace platforms
- Harassing communications sent after work hours in connection with workplace relationships
Employees should preserve relevant digital communications rather than deleting them if they believe they may be important to a workplace complaint.
Organizations should also make clear that professional conduct expectations apply to digital workplaces.
The EEOC's harassment-prevention recommendations specifically recognize technology-facilitated harassment and online harassment as issues employers should consider.
What If the Harassment Comes From a Customer or Client?
Employees sometimes assume harassment only matters when the person responsible is another employee.
That's not necessarily the case.
Customers, clients, contractors, vendors, and other non-employees can also engage in inappropriate conduct.
For example, a customer might repeatedly make sexual comments toward an employee, or a client might make discriminatory remarks.
Employees shouldn't be expected to simply tolerate inappropriate behavior because the person is a customer.
The appropriate response will depend on the circumstances and the employer's policies, but employees should report recurring or serious conduct through the organization's established channels.
Employers should also have procedures for handling harassment involving non-employees. The EEOC's prevention guidance specifically recommends addressing allegations involving customers, contractors, guests, and other non-employees.
What Should You Do If You Experience Harassment?
Employees who believe they are experiencing harassment should first familiarize themselves with their organization's workplace policies and reporting procedures.
Depending on the circumstances, useful steps may include:
Document what happened.
Record dates, locations, people involved, what was said or done, and whether anyone witnessed the incident.
Preserve relevant evidence.
Save emails, messages, screenshots, or other communications that may help establish what occurred.
Review your company's reporting process.
Your employee handbook, HR resources, intranet, or workplace policy may explain where concerns should be reported.
Report the concern.
Depending on the organization's procedures, this may involve a supervisor, HR representative, compliance department, ethics hotline, or another designated reporting channel.
Be as factual as possible.
Explain what happened rather than relying only on conclusions about the person's intentions.
Employees don't need to conduct their own investigation.
The goal is to give the organization enough information to understand the concern and determine what should happen next.
The EEOC encourages employees to report harassment to management at an early stage because early reporting can help employers address problems before they escalate.
Do You Have to Confront the Person First?
Not necessarily.
The EEOC says employees are encouraged to tell the harasser directly that the conduct is unwelcome and should stop, but employees should also report harassment through management or the employer's reporting process.
Whether confronting the person directly is appropriate depends on the circumstances.
For minor workplace misunderstandings, a direct conversation may sometimes resolve the problem.
For serious, threatening, sexual, discriminatory, or otherwise concerning conduct, employees should use their organization's reporting procedures and prioritize their own safety.
No employee should feel required to confront someone personally in a situation where doing so could put them at risk.
What If You Witness Harassment?
Employees don't have to be the direct target of conduct to recognize that something is wrong.
A coworker may hear an offensive comment, see inappropriate behavior, or become aware of conduct affecting another employee.
If you witness potentially inappropriate conduct, consider the organization's policies and reporting procedures.
Depending on the situation, an employee might:
- Report the concern
- Support the affected coworker
- Preserve relevant information
- Cooperate with an investigation
- Use an established reporting channel
The EEOC's prevention guidance encourages organizations to create environments in which employees are comfortable reporting conduct they believe may be harassment.
Employees should also avoid spreading allegations through workplace gossip.
A legitimate concern should be handled through appropriate channels rather than becoming workplace speculation.
What Happens After You Report Harassment?
Employees sometimes hesitate to report concerns because they don't know what happens next.
The process varies by organization, but a well-designed workplace complaint system should provide an accessible way to raise concerns and allow the organization to respond appropriately.
The EEOC recommends complaint systems that are accessible, prompt, thorough, and impartial. It also recommends that organizations provide multiple reporting avenues when possible and protect privacy to the extent possible while still conducting an appropriate investigation.
An employee may be asked for information such as:
- What happened
- When it happened
- Where it happened
- Who was involved
- Who witnessed it
- Whether there are relevant messages or documents
- Whether similar incidents occurred previously
Employees should be truthful and provide relevant information.
They should also understand that an investigation may not result in every detail being shared with the person who made the complaint because organizations have legitimate privacy and employment considerations.
What Is Retaliation?
Retaliation is another issue employees should understand.
An employee may have concerns about reporting harassment because they fear losing opportunities, being treated differently, or facing other negative consequences.
Federal employment laws protect employees from certain forms of retaliation for protected activity, including making certain complaints or participating in investigations.
The EEOC's harassment guidance specifically identifies retaliation as an important part of workplace harassment prevention.
Potential warning signs after a complaint might include sudden unexplained disciplinary action, exclusion from opportunities, or other materially negative treatment.
Not every negative workplace event after a complaint is automatically retaliation. Employment decisions can have legitimate explanations.
But if an employee believes they are being retaliated against, they should document what is happening and use the appropriate reporting or legal resources.
What Managers Should Do When an Employee Reports Harassment
Managers have an important responsibility because employees may report concerns to them before anyone else.
A manager shouldn't dismiss a complaint simply because the accused employee is well-liked, productive, or senior.
Managers should also avoid promising a particular outcome before the facts are reviewed.
Instead, managers should listen carefully, document the concern appropriately, follow the organization's reporting procedure, and escalate the matter to the appropriate HR, compliance, or other designated personnel.
The EEOC recommends training supervisors and managers to prevent, recognize, and respond to objectionable conduct and to understand how to report harassment concerns.
A manager's role isn't necessarily to determine whether conduct is legally harassment.
It's to make sure a legitimate concern is not ignored.
Why Employees Shouldn't Try to Investigate Harassment Themselves
Once someone believes harassment has occurred, there can be a temptation to investigate independently.
That can create additional problems.
Employees shouldn't secretly confront witnesses, pressure coworkers to take sides, alter messages, or spread allegations throughout the workplace.
A formal investigation should be handled through the organization's established process and by individuals with the appropriate responsibility and training.
Employees can help by preserving relevant information and providing accurate facts.
Why Workplace Harassment Training Matters
A workplace policy sitting in an employee handbook isn't enough if employees don't understand it.
The EEOC identifies several elements that can contribute to effective harassment prevention, including committed leadership, accountability, comprehensive policies, accessible complaint procedures, and regular, interactive training tailored to the workplace.
Employee training can help workers understand:
- What conduct is prohibited
- How to recognize inappropriate behavior
- Where to report concerns
- What information may be requested during an investigation
- What retaliation means
- What responsibilities employees and managers have
Training is particularly useful when it is practical rather than simply presenting legal definitions.
Employees need to understand what these issues can look like in their actual work environment.
What a Strong Workplace Harassment Policy Should Include
Employees should know where to find their organization's harassment policy and what it says.
According to the EEOC's recommended practices, an effective policy should clearly describe prohibited conduct, explain reporting procedures, provide accessible reporting avenues, address investigations, and communicate that retaliation is prohibited.
Employees should be able to answer basic questions such as:
Who can I report harassment to?
What if my supervisor is involved?
Can I report to someone outside my department?
What happens after I make a report?
How does the company protect against retaliation?
If employees can't find answers to those questions, the organization may need to improve how its policies and reporting procedures are communicated.
When Workplace Harassment Becomes a Legal Issue
Workplace harassment law is fact-specific.
Employees shouldn't assume that every unpleasant experience automatically creates a legal claim, and they also shouldn't assume that something is harmless simply because they aren't sure whether it meets a legal definition.
Federal, state, and local laws can differ, and deadlines and available remedies can depend on the circumstances.
The EEOC is an important federal resource for employees who believe they have experienced discrimination or harassment covered by federal law. Employees may also wish to seek advice from an employment attorney or appropriate state or local agency when they believe their legal rights may have been violated.
This article is intended for general educational purposes and isn't legal advice.
What Employees Can Do to Help Prevent Harassment
Employees have an important role in workplace culture.
That doesn't mean employees are responsible for preventing misconduct by others.
It does mean individuals can contribute to a professional environment by treating coworkers respectfully, avoiding inappropriate jokes and comments, speaking up when appropriate, following workplace policies, and reporting serious concerns.
Organizations are more likely to identify problems early when employees know that concerns can be raised without being dismissed.
That makes workplace culture a shared responsibility—but leadership carries a particularly important responsibility for establishing expectations and responding consistently.
The Bigger Lesson for Employees
The most important thing employees need to know is that they don't have to become workplace law experts before raising a legitimate concern.
If conduct feels inappropriate, review the organization's policy and consider speaking with an appropriate supervisor, HR representative, compliance professional, or other designated resource.
Document relevant information.
Preserve communications.
Avoid workplace gossip.
And understand the difference between reporting a concern and trying to investigate it yourself.
A healthy workplace doesn't depend on employees simply hoping inappropriate behavior will stop.
It depends on clear expectations, trusted reporting systems, informed managers, and employees who understand how to use those systems.
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